Variety is the spice of life…

We are comprised of multiple authentic selves. What are yours?


I am an ICF ACC-certified executive and life coach. Find out how coaching can accelerate your journey towards what you really want in life!


What if a mashup of Eat, Pray, Love and Wild were written by a queer Asian Millennial? THE NO PLAN PLAN is my debut memoir


Part travel blog, part social commentary…check out my reflections of an unorthodox personal journey off the beaten path

Upcoming events

Jan. 12-21 @ 6pm PT: HER Queer Dating 101 (with Autostraddle)

Feb. 3 @ 5pm PT: HER Interview with Imani Rupert-Gordon (Director of NCLR) on what the new administration means for your queer rights!

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